Free Mind.

It's okay to be in Solitude! Getting to know yourself better than ever before.

I'm just passing along the words that struck my like chords on the piano this morning.

It's okay to explore yourself and truly figure YOU out.

I've been on a journey of solitude but sometimes I want some company like when I want to go to a random event I found on Eventbrite, or going on a walk on the trail, or going to the movies. However, will I let not having someone specifically to go with deter me from going, absolutely the fuck not!

Sometimes it's better to go alone so you can truly immerse yourself in the experience you wanted to explore without the responsibility of making sure someone is enjoying the experience as much as you.

Solitude is okay! To explore your own thoughts and ask yourself questions to get a deeper innerderstanding of why you like the things you like or why is it important for you to get married? What does all of that truly mean to you. What kind of life do you truly want to live? When have you felt the freest?

Solitude is progression. As a woman, we have been conditioned to acknowledge the counterpart we are to the man. We have been conditioned to put our children's needs above our own. We have been conditioned that our children need to be with us 24/7. Then, what's left for you, what do you still have left that is truly authentically you and not of everybody else?

Solitude may look like waking up at 5:30 am before anybody else to work out for 30 minutes. It may look like spending some time outside with a cup of tea listening to your favorite sounds. It may look like letting the kids know that mama needs 30 minutes to herself after dinner. It may look like going to a local park for lunch break sitting outside enjoying the sun. Solitude is time you specifically and intentionally take for yourself. It's time that you deserve every single day.

and it's okay!

Solitude is progression. It's evidence that you love and care deeply for yourself that you choose to nurture certain parts of you. You choose to have a better innerstanding for yourself which in turn helps you have a better understand for others. It may help you realize that everybody is a reflection of you. Everybody placed around you is a mirror, once it has been /innerstood you move with a different grace. Obstacles are nothing but points for reflection and motivation to keep you on your journey. Keep going! The only different between the one who succeeds and the one who fails is the one who succeeded, kept going!

You should know yourself so much so, nobody can tell you who you are. You TEACH and SHOW people how you will be treated and how you choose to live your life. It's not your job to convivence them that its right or wrong or to love it or like it. It's your just to live it...for you! It's okay to be in Solitude!