When shit hits the fan is you still a fan?
- thelashaddictt
- Jun 10
- 2 min read
I wanted to start this off going in about men siphoning feminine energy, but this topic is universal. Regardless of the presenting gender, the divine feminine energy is gold. From the smallest of increments to the largest— feminine energy is useful/powerful. That’s the contradiction of the world, they will try to make the most high feel like the lowest, so they aren’t aware of their true strengths and powers. Making you believe that you are powerless because power is only supposed to present a particular way. It’s important to take time to get to know thyself, especially as a woman. The creator of life. A role that should not be taken lightly. I’m not just speaking human life; I’m speaking creator of life in everything in every way. That alone should put the idea in your mind every day that as a woman you are powerful.
With that power and understanding comes haters and fans. It comes with people that will present as having pure intentions but have malice in their hearts. They will try to hide their envy with concern to siphon energy from you. Whether the energy is positive or negative, its energy. Energy that they want and need to use for their own advantage.
It’s important to be particular about the conversations and time that you offer others. Pay attention to how your body physical feels. Pay attention to how your mind thinks and feels. Take note. That’s your indicator. Continue to check in with yourself because of shit changes every day, revolving door.
People will see you and create a whole ass fantasy in their head for how you walk, talk, act, love, cry, all the things. This will tell you if this person is around me to experience me or if this person is around to get to know me. You can tell by the questions they ask (if they even ask you questions). Pay attention to if people check in with you or are checking up on you. Checking in to ensure they don’t want to lose their access or there in with you. All you have to do, is watch and ask questions of your own. Less is more. There is no secret formula, it’s just the internal knowing that you have and can feel without further explanation.
A fan is a person with a strong, passionate interest in or admiration for someone or something.
Everyone is not meant to be “invited to the cookout”. Just because they are presenting as “nice” or interested, it can be just that a presentation. Protect your energy ladies and know that it’s some of the most powerful energy in this world.
Most people are meant to stay fans.



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